On Tuesday I completed the first item on the list, which was number 38:
Skype my best friend. My best friend and I are about to pass five years of being friends. We met online a few years ago, and even though she's 1,000 miles away, the distance doesn't matter when I have a friend like her. She's super sweet and awesome, and has helped me through everything, and is just so amazing I could go on forever on her awesomeness, and I continuously thank God to have her as my best friend. Online friends are real friends, regardless if we haven't met face-to-face. Next year I will be seeing her for the first time for her graduation, and I couldn't be more excited!
However, up until last year we haven't really contacted with one another other than over texting or Snapchat. It was weird I've been talking to this person for years and never heard their voice. Last year (almost exactly a year ago) she brought up we should talk over the phone, and I loved that idea and agreed. But at that moment I was in the middle of moving across the country, so I couldn't find private time carved out to talk on the phone. Like how it usually went, we just forgot about it and never did it. In November, me and her did do a back and forth over Snapchat (not the video call, just videos) so we got to hear each others voices. In the beginning of this year, she mentioned we should Oovoo that weekend. Yet again, life got in the way and we never did it.
Because of these instances, I thought we should finally do it over the summer. I actually made no mention of this to her, and went with the plan that I would just bring up the ole "hey, we should Skype!" whenever I decided to do so. Here's the funny thing, she approached the subject first, with no knowledge I wanted to do it this summer.
On Tuesday she told me how Snapchat updated and added a new feature to video call, and I instantly jumped on board and agreed. We set up a time, and we tried. For half an hour, and couldn't connect with each other. So she buckled and downloaded Skype and did it that way. Due to connection problems it lagged alot, and every five minutes (not exaggerating) we would lose connection and the call would end. It frustrated her to no end, more than I (I wasn't very bothered by it though it was annoying). That problem was fixed the next day and we were able to have a long chat uninterrupted, which was nice.
I am so glad I live in a day and age where I could talk face to face with someone who is a thousand miles away without having to be right next to them. Back in time, pen pals were a thing, and I imagined that was more difficult to connect with a person. Thanks to social media, it's amazing how much we can connect and grow in our relationship with people leagues away.
Though our first or two chats were super awkward, mainly due to my severe awkwardness and quietness, but the more we talked, the more I feel comfortable doing it and It's great. I am speaking for myself haha, I don't know how she feels about it.
I honestly think we're going to do this again during the summer since we also did it on Thursday. Her and I have been busy this weekend, so we might not be able to squeeze one in, which is completely A-Okay, and it's okay if we don't Skype the rest of the summer! We still talk, but Skyping is really fun. I super happy this one is the first one to be crossed off my list ^.^